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  • Do you ever worry about distance in your relationships?
  • Do you sometimes feel like you're losing yourself to work, distraction or worries?
  • Do you struggle to balance attention to your own needs and those of the people around you?
  • Would you like a more reliable way to navigate stress and disagreement in your relationships?

You're in the right place!

  • You deserve to feel deep connection and fulfillment EVERY DAY ... not just on vacation ... or when that problem is solved.
  • Mindfulness can absolutely improve the closeness and connection in your relationships.
  • The VisibleU™ Method helps you balance connection with your partner, children, family, friends, coworkers and self.

Hello! I'm Jessica Kiesler, a psychotherapist, relationship and addiction expert, and creator of the VisibleU™ Method.

I help busy adults carve out space for happier and more mindful relationships.

Do you feel like you're living in one of two extremes: either on-autopilot ... mildly checked-out while you meet all the demands of work, family and adulting ... or on-edge when you really just want to relax and connect with those you love.

You've heard mindfulness could help. Maybe you've tried a meditation app or yoga?

But here's the thing ... satisfying connection with partners, children, family & friends can't happen if there's not emotional space for it. 

I learned this from personal experience!  I've always been pretty driven. But years ago I wasn't great at balancing what I could do for others, with compassion for myself. I began to feel more irritable and unfulfilled than I was willing to tolerate.

Mindfulness seemed like a good answer. But meditation wasn't doing enough throughout the day, when I wanted to be more patient and present to the good moments in life.  That's why I created The VisibleU™ Method.

The VisibleU™ Method helps you manage yourself in relation to the world around you, so you can balance connection with your partner, children, family, friends, coworkers and self.

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With Gratitude,